The problem with living in a fantasy world is that even though it doesn’t really exist, it follows you everywhere you go. And certain concepts, like the perfect partner are not only illusory but destructive to real life relationships, proving an effective deterrent to peace of mind. But, like the perfect beach or tropical resort, these concepts sometimes have a life of their own. And often, they are peddled to an unritical audience. Note here Chinese tourists visiting Phi Phi island, Thailand, best known as the location for the movie “The Beach” about a pristine and perfect beach whose location had to be kept a secret in order to keeping it from being ruined. Guess some tour operators and tourists found a way around that one.